This topic contains 28 replies, has 1 voice, and was last updated by Lane 4 years, 1 month ago. So hes unable to commit to you, he can’t allow you to have respectable expectations of him, he won’t call you his gf, you’re currently anxious about the set up of your imaginary relationship…what exactly are you afraid of losing??
Hayley, you accepted crumbs not to “lose” him. You can do better. But if you want a man who wants to be with you, wants to have you as part of his life, not just an option, then you will probably be best served to leave this guy and find a man who values you enough to want you to be his girlfriend… and you won’t have to ask him after 3 months. He doesn’t like you enough to want a relationship with you. More about Olympic MindManager Add-ins Did you ever ask if he is looking for a relationship in general? If you find yourself constantly giving more to someone than they give you, it’s time to rethink the relationship. He will do whatever he has to in order to lock you down from any other man stepping in willing to give you that label. Did you know that Maja Angelou had a great saying: believe him what he says the first time!
If it was me, I definitely would. ), Is He Seeing Someone Else? He was (and still is I think) reluctant to do so, because he believes these labels bring high-expectations to which he won’t be able to fulfill (monetary, time etc). Hayley, a man who genuinely wants you, will WANT to label you as his gf. Create your next set of Relationship labels on Zazzle! The material on this site may not be reproduced, distributed, transmitted, cached or otherwise used, except as expressly permitted in writing by A New Mode, Inc. The true question is what do you want, and what does he want? I didn’t even have to ask my man for that, he just claimed me as his gf right away because he didn’t want to risk the chance of another man stepping in AND hes PROUD to call me his gf. And you’ll be really happy and secure. If you just want casual sex without any commitment, then you can continue to see him as is. As a side note: A lot of women delude themselves with scenario. yes because there’s a certain expectation. My unofficial fiance is planning to go to a different country…, Im in love with my ex husbands best friend, Ask a Guy (Dating Tips / Relationship Advice for Women): Frequently Asked Questions, How to Be a Good Girlfriend (And the Best He’s Ever Had! I am single mom and I started seeing this guy ( Widower ) for about 7months now, we met 3months after he lost his wife with cancer, after almost 6 months of illness.
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While getting the GF title doesn’t guarantee a happy ending, not getting the title definitely seems to guarantee this is a road to nowhere (since it seems you’ve made it clear you are looking for more). Just this weekend I realized that I must be in the same boat. You can’t “lose” what you never had.
Like you said, sometimes it worked and sometimes it didn’t.
- . What exactly are you losing?
As someone else pointed out, he told you exactly why he doesn’t want to call you GF – because he doesn’t want the responsibilities that naturally come with a good complete relationship. Half a loaf keeps you chewing on something dry and stale and thus you are too busy to see a warm, fresh loaf that’s calling your name! Of course not. Do you think they provide some sort of security for you?”. This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website.
But if in your heart of hearts you REALLY want the whole enchilada…engagement, marriage, etc., then taking this path will keep you from attaining that goal. But if that happens, there is nothing I could have done to prevent it; Just as if I decide to leave him for someone else too. When I was younger it held a lot of value, where it was a confession of love with the goal towards an engagement or marriage if things went well. These cookies do not store any personal information. In that time, we’ve had 3 arguments about the importance of him calling me “girlfriend”. It is mandatory to procure user consent prior to running these cookies on your website. These have to be some of the BEST answers I’ve seen on this forum.
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